杰瑞发布于2022-07-02
Conversing (talking) with others in English opens up a whole new world of opportunities. I’ve put together a friendly guide to English conversation for beginners filled with useful, basic phrases—from greetings and small talk to saying goodbye—that’ll take you on your first conversation adventure. freak out: 短语,一种意思是惊慌失措,第二种意思是受到刺激后很大的反应。总的来说就是不是常态。
- Somebody:
Honestly, I don't understand why people have such a hard time coming up to a stranger and talking to them. I've traveled to a lot of my countries in my 17 years of living, but I've never come across someone in any place who seemed freaked out when I went and striked a random conversation with them, whether it's in an airplane, or in a grocery store. I think people should really simplify their view a bit more on this whole thing. For me, if I feel a positive vibe off the person, I will instantly want to befriend or get to know them. Then its just a matter of walking up and saying hi, honestly complimenting them on something, and bingo. New friend gained. :)老实说,我不明白为什么人们很难接近陌生人并与他们交谈。在我17年的生活中,我去过很多国家,但在任何地方我都没有遇到过这样的人,当我去与他们随意交谈时,无论是在飞机上,还是在杂货店,他们似乎都吓坏了。我认为人们应该把他们对这件事的看法简化一点。对我来说,如果我觉得这个人有一种积极的氛围,我会立刻想和他们交朋友或结识他们。然后就是走上前去打招呼,真诚地赞美他们,然后就是宾果了。获得新朋友。:)- Ripshark:
You have that effect on people. Some people like me, get negative responses here and there and positive ones here and there. I wait for the right moment and if it doesn't come, tough. That's just me. Wish I could be more relaxed like you .你对人们有这种影响。像我这样的一些人,到处都是负面的反应,到处都是正面的反应。我等待合适的时机,如果没有,那就很艰难。那只是我。希望我能像你一样放松。- Peppermint:
One will probably want to say hi to people that have the same 'vibe' as him/herself, not just to anyone or to someone that's good looking or popular. To find people that are alike, one needs to first know who is himself. I think shyness and anxiety are manifestations of not having yet discovered, accepted, appreciate or simply be glad about our unique individuality.