词汇：that
pron. 那；那个
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You can amass enough money to be comfortable if you earn a salary working for others, but you will not get rich this way. That does not mean that you should never work for other people. Especially early in your career, you can treat working for other people as a paid research experiment. You can learn skills, see how other people do business, and understand more about running an organization.
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如果你为别人工作挣工资，你可以积累足够的钱，但这样你就不会致富。这并不意味着你永远不应该为别人工作。尤其是在你职业生涯的早期，你可以把为别人工作当作一项有偿的研究实验。你可以学习技能，了解其他人是如何做生意的，并更多地了解如何经营一个组织。
If you cannot convince yourself that you are “good enough” to be rich, you will never get rich.
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如果你不能说服自己“足够好”致富，你就永远不会致富。
If you have artistic inclinations and fear that the search for wealth will coarsen such talents or degrade them, you will never get rich. (Because your fear, in this instance, is well justified.)
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如果你有艺术倾向，担心对财富的追求会使这些天赋变粗或退化，你就永远不会致富。（因为在这种情况下，你的恐惧是有充分理由的。）
“After a lifetime of making money and observing better men and women than I fall by the wayside, I am convinced that fear of failing in the eyes of the world is the single biggest impediment to amassing wealth. Trust me on this.”
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“在一生都在赚钱，观察比我更好的男人和女人之后，我相信，害怕在世人眼中失败是积累财富的最大障碍。相信我。”
If you dare to do something different or to create large amounts of wealth, people will criticize you and tell you how you will fail at every corner. And at some corners, you will fail and hear all those people uttering that they told you so.
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如果你敢于做一些不同的事情或创造大量财富，人们会批评你，告诉你你会在每个角落都失败。在某些角落，你会失败，听到所有人都说他们告诉过你。
While some planning and debate can help you reduce the risk of a business venture, this often leads people to avoid the most important step of making things happen and getting rich — taking action. The truth is that no amount of debate can make entrepreneurial endeavors “risk-free.” So while it’s important to act smartly, it’s better to simply act and learn as you go to avoid getting caught in the cycle of paralysis by analysis.
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虽然一些规划和辩论可以帮助你降低商业风险，但这往往会导致人们避开让事情发生和致富的最重要的一步——采取行动。事实上，再多的争论也无法使创业努力“无风险”。因此，虽然聪明地行动很重要，但最好边做边学，以避免被分析陷入瘫痪的循环。
This all takes practice to master so I also created a ChatGPT Monster prompt that will roleplay different levels of clients (easy to hard). I'm also including it at the bottom of the doc.
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
这一切都需要练习才能掌握，所以我还创建了一个ChatGPT Monster提示符，可以对不同级别的客户端进行角色扮演（从易到难）。我也把它放在文档的底部。
Don't just hang up after that! Spend 2-3 minutes returning to small talk. This calms their nerves, eases potential buyer's remorse, and reinforces that you're a human they're building a relationship with, not just a vendor who got their money.
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
别在那之后就挂了！花2-3分钟回到闲聊。这可以安抚他们的神经，缓解潜在买家的悔恨，并强化你是他们正在建立关系的人，而不仅仅是一个有钱的卖家。
Immediately explain the next steps. "Great! Here's what will happen next. I'm going to send over the contract and an invoice for the initial deposit.Once that's handled, I'll send you a link to book our kickoff call."
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
立即解释接下来的步骤。“太好了！接下来会发生什么。我将发送合同和初始存款的发票。一旦处理完毕，我将向您发送一个链接，以预订我们的启动电话。”
That's a fair question. you're right, there are definitely cheaper options out there, and for simple tasks, they can be great. The question is , are you looking to buy a task, or are you looking to buy a business outcome? A task doer will do exactly what you say. I see my role as a strategic partner to help you achieve [their goal]. which of those is more important to you right now?
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>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
这是一个公平的问题。你说得对，肯定有更便宜的选择，对于简单的任务，它们可能很棒。问题是，你是想买一项任务，还是想买一个业务成果？一个实干家会完全按照你说的去做。我认为我是一个战略合作伙伴，可以帮助你实现[他们的目标]。现在哪一个对你来说更重要？
"That's a perfectly fine; most of my best clients take time to think. Just so I can understand. what specific part of it do you need to think about most?"
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>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
“这很好；我的大多数最好的客户都会花时间思考。这样我才能理解。你最需要思考的具体部分是什么？”
"That's more expensive than I was expecting". "I understand. Can I ask what you were budgeting for a project like this?" OR "Could you tell me a bit more about what makes it feel expensive?"(This helps you understand if it's a value problem or a cash flow problem).
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>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
“这比我预想的要贵”。“我明白了。我能问一下你为这样的项目做了什么预算吗？”或者“你能告诉我更多关于什么让它看起来很贵吗？”（这有助于你理解这是价值问题还是现金流问题）。
After you're done, ask them: "That's the general overview. What questions do you have about that for me?"
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>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
完成后，问他们：“这是总体概述。你对我有什么问题？”
On the other hand if they tell you they've had 20 freelancers on this and that they all sucked, you should probably run away.
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
另一方面，如果他们告诉你他们有20个自由职业者，而且他们都很糟糕，你可能应该逃跑。
"Have you worked with another freelancer or agency on this? what was that like?"
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>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
“你和其他自由职业者或机构合作过吗？那是什么感觉？”
If they give shot, unhelpful answers, use this: "Could you tell me a bit more about that?"
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>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
"When I reached out, something in my message must have clicked. What was it that made you decide to take this call?"
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>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
“当我联系时，我的消息中一定有什么东西点击了。是什么让你决定接这个电话的？”
Before we get into the "what to say", we need to fix the "how to think", This is 90% of the battle.
Your job isn't to push a product; it's to diagnose a problem. You should be listening, asking intelligent questions, and determining if you're even the right person to help them. If a doctor listened to your symptoms for 30 seconds and immediately tried to sell you on a specific surgery, you'd run. Don't be that person.
In the first half of the call, the client should be doing 80% of the talking. If you're talking more than them, you're pitching, not discovering. You're losing.
You don't need this client. You are evaluating them just as much as they are evaluating you. Think of it like a first date. You're not trying to force a second date from the moment you sit down. You're genuinely trying to see if there's a connection and if you're compatible for a long-term relationship.
Do not read this word-for-word. Reading makes you sound like a robot and breaks all trust.
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
Your job isn't to push a product; it's to diagnose a problem. You should be listening, asking intelligent questions, and determining if you're even the right person to help them. If a doctor listened to your symptoms for 30 seconds and immediately tried to sell you on a specific surgery, you'd run. Don't be that person.
In the first half of the call, the client should be doing 80% of the talking. If you're talking more than them, you're pitching, not discovering. You're losing.
You don't need this client. You are evaluating them just as much as they are evaluating you. Think of it like a first date. You're not trying to force a second date from the moment you sit down. You're genuinely trying to see if there's a connection and if you're compatible for a long-term relationship.
Do not read this word-for-word. Reading makes you sound like a robot and breaks all trust.
>> Here's the script that change everything for my freelancing business
在我们进入“说什么”之前，我们需要解决“如何思考”，这是90%的战斗。你的工作不是推销产品；这是为了诊断问题。你应该倾听，提出明智的问题，并确定你是否是帮助他们的合适人选。如果医生听了你30秒的症状，并立即试图向你推销一种特定的手术，你就会逃跑。别做那种人。在通话的前半段，客户应该完成80%的通话。如果你说的比他们多，你是在投球，而不是在发现。你输了。你不需要这个客户。你对他们的评价和他们对你的评价一样多。把它想象成第一次约会。从你坐下来的那一刻起，你就没有试图强迫第二次约会。你真的想看看是否有联系，以及你是否适合长期关系。不要逐字逐句地读这个。阅读让你听起来像个机器人，打破了所有的信任。
58. Ask questions and find answers to them. Set goals, align your action with them. and achieve these goals. Once you determine what is important to you, what you want , and where you see yourself in a year or ten years, then you will understand what hard skills you need. The biggest problem of a person who knows how to code perfectly or work with a hammer is that he does not know what to do and what they want.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
58.提出问题并找到答案。设定目标，使你的行动与目标保持一致。并实现这些目标。一旦你确定了什么对你来说是重要的，你想要什么，以及你在一年或十年后对自己的看法，那么你就会明白你需要什么样的硬技能。一个知道如何完美编码或使用锤子的人最大的问题是，他不知道该做什么，也不知道他们想要什么。
52.Learn how to kiss ass without making it too obvious that your sucking up to the person.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
52.学会如何在不明显地sucking up对方的情况下讨好对方。
39. Learn how to invest so your money makes you more money while you work your day job. Salaries don't make you wealthy, investments do. It's not how much you make, it's what you do with that money that matters.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
39.学习如何投资，这样你的钱在你的日常工作中就能让你赚更多的钱。薪水不会让你变得富有，投资会。重要的不是你赚了多少钱，而是你用这些钱做了什么。
31.Learn how to get people's attention. That's marketing, copywriting, video hooks, Without attention, nothing sells. Learn how to sell once you've got attention. Cold DMs, landing pages. offer creations, persuasion. Learn how to deliver value. Pick any service: SEO,editing,AI tools, GMB, whatever. Solve real problems. Stack those 3 = you're unstoppable. Forget school-level thinking. Learn how to get paid. Bonus: document your journey. That content alone will attract clients, mentors and money.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
31.学习如何吸引人们的注意力。这就是营销、文案、视频挂钩，没有关注，什么都卖不出去。一旦你受到关注，就要学会如何销售。冷DM，着陆页。提供创意、说服力。学习如何创造价值。选择任何服务：搜索引擎优化、编辑、人工智能工具、GMB等等。解决实际问题。堆叠这3个=你势不可挡。忘记学校层面的思考。学习如何获得报酬。奖励：记录你的旅程。仅凭这些内容就能吸引客户、导师和资金。
29.As an introvert, I wish I had taken classes on how to sell myself. At the age of 57. I am self-assured and confident in my business and what i bring to the table. Hope that helps.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
29.作为一个内向的人，我希望我上过如何推销自己的课。57岁。我对自己的业务和我带来的东西充满信心。希望这能有所帮助。
28.I think medicine is solid but if they don't want to make that commitment, then a trade suck as plumbing, electrician, elevator install and repair, etc.Don't fall for the "find your passion" bullshit, and don't go get any garbage degree. have a plan and execute.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
28.我认为医学是可靠的，但如果他们不想做出这样的承诺，那么管道、电工、电梯安装和维修等行业就很糟糕了。不要被“找到你的激情”的废话所迷惑，也不要去获得任何垃圾学位。制定计划并执行。
25.I would recommend learning how to leverage AI, that can help with everything.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
>> If I'm 16.what high-value skills should I learn now.
25.我建议学习如何利用人工智能，这对一切都有帮助。