马斯克: 如果你对自己说

if you say to yourself: I want to make a million dollars this year. Your brain hears the word 'want'. And that means you don't have that million.

But there are some many things you don't have, so how's that million gonna come to you?

But if you say "I own 1 million dollars" even though it's far from your actual income your brain perks up and pays attention to it.

但如果你说“我拥有100万美元”，即使这与你的实际收入相去甚远，你的大脑也会振作起来，注意到这一点。

Since I discovered this secret at 13, I've practiced it every day.

The result are , as you can imagine, pretty crazy.

If you don't believe, check out my notebook before .

All the goals I wrote down have become my reality, But what I gotta warn you this doesn't mean just by writing it down, it's gonna happen on its own.

I write it down every morning, noon, and night.

So I'm constantly focused on my goal, every moment.

I want it I gotta have it in my life.

I've seen therapists, read tons of psychology books talked to a lot of friends, and tried out many methods.

And it really doesn't matter what others think of you. The important is believe yourself no matter how.

When you focus all your energy on yourself, you won't even have the time to care about others.

Your progress will be so insane, so fast that it's beyond imagination.

If you want to success, you have to figure out what you really want .

Mistakes are not all bad, they can help you know what you don't want quickly. What are you willing to give in exchange? And what's the cost you're prepared to pay?

They most important thing in life is: Put your own feeling first. Only when we're fully charged with energy, we can have the extra strength to love others and this world.

Life has at least two phases you gotta go through. First, chaotic phase, you only know follow the crowd not knowing what sets you apart from everyone else. All that stability you see comes from the early days of figuring things out and the turmoil from the breakups and the pain, from the letting go and the choices made.

Don't worry, once we survive this internal battle , Happiness and money will start to surface little by little.