So Do you want to start dating an English speaker? Here are a few questions to help you out. First. if you want to go on a date. you could say, You: "Hey, what are you doing this weekend? Do you want to do something. you know, as a date?". Or "Should we go to the cinema, as a date?" You know, try to get that word date in there so they're not confused. They don't think it's just friends. Later, after a few dates, if you want to make this person your partner, the normal question is , "Do you wanna go out with me?", And sometimes, we've been on a lot of dates and we're not sure whether they are your partner. So you can say, "What are we?" or "Shall we make this official?" Good luck in your love life.